We have all made decisions that we later questioned, opportunities that we wish we had taken, or things we wish we had never said. Suddenly, they become our “If only’s.” “If only I had said this…” or “If only I had stayed home” or “If only I had taken the chance.” Think of one of your “If only’s” that you still beat yourself up over. What would you do differently? How would your life be different if you had? Can you create a new opportunity to make up for the missed one? How can you learn from the choice and move on?
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